Some people ask me about how they should sit in meditation, or complain about some pain and discomfort that they find in their neck, shoulders, back and legs when they meditate.
First of all, I want to say that I’m not an expert in body alignment and positioning, but I think I have something both important and interesting to share with you. However, feel free to look for more details elsewhere or consult an expert in body alignment should you require. I believe if you have no physical problem, this write-up suffices. (see the caution at the end)
Why Posture?
So to start, I would say that the importance of posture in meditation comes from three things which I'm going to list in a moment. However bear in mind that your posture is not supposed to make you rigid in your practice, which means it has no value beyond facilitating your practice. If you find yourself comfortable and successfully meditating with certain positioning of your body, then that could be a good posture for you. I sometimes meditate lying down on my bed or when riding in a car. As far as what my posture is in each of these scenarios can serve my practice, then it’s a good posture for me.
OK, here are the three important things which are your goals to achieve in your meditation practice, 1) preventing physical injury and serious pain, 2) allowing you to relax into your body, 3) and facilitating concentration and keeping you awake during your practice.
The Typical Elements of a Good Posture
I say ‘typical’ because the below coming elements are formally and traditionally considered in how one needs to sit in order to meditate correctly, plus they are known to best achieve the three goals mentioned above. Let’s have a look at them one by one in details.
1. Spine should be upright following its natural arch. However this natural arch can differ from person to person and between sitting down, standing up and some other positions. In martial arts, they teach you how to tuck it in and out as required. If you don’t know anything about that, no issue. Just sit with your back comfortably straight and avoid exaggerations whether by pushing your chest out or by trying to eliminate the arch. It helps the spine maintain its upright position if your hips are in a higher level than your knees.
2. Shoulders should be dropped down and relaxed. When we feel anxious, our shoulders may tend to go up. This can happen while you’re meditating, but whenever you notice it, drop your shoulders back down. That’s all what you need to do.
3. Head should be relaxed and sitting right over your torso. No slouching and no pushing the head forwards or backwards either. With maintaining you head nicely sitting above your torso, if you tuck your chin slightly in, it causes your neck to stretch slightly from the back and will help you breathe more easily and deeply, especially if you want to breathe into your belly.
4. Hands should be supported to help your shoulders to stay relaxed. Putting them in your lap is ideal in keeping your shoulders dropped down. The reason for this is that the natural distance between your shoulders and lap perfectly suites the length of your hands and the position of your elbows. This also allows your upper arms to keep a nice distance from your chest, which in turn allows room for the breath. You may also notice your shoulders open up and roll back as you create this room.
5. Facial muscles should be relaxed and jaw should be relaxed and slightly dropped. Dropping your jaw can help your facial muscles to ease and expand. And to keep your mouth closed, it helps to touch the back of your upper teeth or the ceiling of your mouth with your tongue, whatever feel comfortable to you.
I have got you these nice images from Google and made the lines in the left one. See how all what I mentioned above applies to them. Not all the images available out there are as good.
The Benefits of a Good Posture
If you follow these guidelines, you’ll have the ideal position for concentration and it will be almost impossible to fall asleep. This is first.
Second, sitting in this position allows you to relax your body around your subject of concentration. For instance, if you want to focus on the emotional body sensations (especially those with negative elements in them) such as anxiety and sadness, you want to have the rest of your body to be rested around those feelings no matter how intense they can get, so you can concentrate on them without having to be attached to them.
Third, these guidelines are generally about the best way in which your body can rest safely and productively. I say ‘safely’ in terms of preventing injuries like back or neck pain, and ‘productively’ because you can do productive practice such as meditating or training your back muscles be stronger and more relaxed holding you upright at the same time. If you feel uncomfortable and tired of keeping this posture for an extended period of time, it’s OK to move a little bit or change your posture by repositioning your hands or putting a cushion underneath, hopefully not at the cost of your practice :)
But remember that tolerating this kind of discomfort in the back, as much as possible, develops the strength of both your back muscles and concentration power, so you don’t want to give in very easily.
Flexibility
If you see how some people sit on the ground with those beautiful classical postures such as the full lotus posture but don’t find your body flexible enough to do them, you still have the choice of doing stretching exercises or classes. Will this help you in your meditation? Not necessarily. And be careful of doing hard stretching exercises by your own as you may injure yourself.
Of course, stretching in itself cannot not make you able to sit on a rock like this man :) but it can make you able to position your legs in this beautiful way.
Word of Caution
If you feel any pain which does not look like it is just a normal discomfort of sitting in a single position for an extended period of time, please consult a doctor or an expert in posture. He or she does not have to be a meditator. Having a serious pain in neck, back, shoulders … etc may indicate either a bad posture (not implementing the above guidelines properly) or some already-existing injury. I urge you to let someone examine your case in person.